Sand in the Gears

Death in Charleston

Thursday, June 18th, 2015 Posted in Faith and Life | 18 Comments »

Tonight I made my way home through rain driven from a shrouded sky. It struck the scorched asphalt, and everywhere was steam. I remembered the verse, how rain falls on the just and the unjust, and as I squinted against ...

Listing

Friday, May 22nd, 2015 Posted in Faith and Life, The Art of Parenting | Comments Off on Listing

Here's an excerpt from my latest Image essay if you're interested: Isaiah returned to the scene of the crime to survey his work. It was a damned atrocity. Paint ran haphazardly against the grain, tacky pools of it collected on the ...

The beast without

Friday, February 20th, 2015 Posted in The Art of Parenting | 14 Comments »

"Isaac's being a jerk," my seven year-old, Isaiah, says about his older brother. They have been sledding over new-fallen snow. "Why do you say that?" "Because he keeps knocking me off my sled." "Why do you think he did that?" I ask. I've been ...

The presence and the devil

Wednesday, April 9th, 2014 Posted in Faith and Life | 1 Comment »

Some of you may appreciate my latest "Good Letters" essay, which is about redemption and communion and other heavy things. I know, a marked change for light-hearted Tony. Here's an excerpt: "I lingered at the edges of another church in the ...

The sickness

Thursday, March 20th, 2014 Posted in The Sermons | 33 Comments »

I write this on the day Fred Phelps, pretender to ministry, hater of gays, vitriolic picketer of soldiers' funerals, has gone forth into the Judgement he welcomed for others. In the days leading up to his demise there was talk ...

The prodigal and I

Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 Posted in Faith and Life | 26 Comments »

I passed through Wichita today, which was no small thing for me, because on every corner is loss. That is the place we took our children to see a game not long before we divorced. There is the building where ...

The world we show them

Thursday, February 13th, 2014 Posted in Faith and Life | 13 Comments »

"Which world do you want to live in?" My oldest son, just days from his 14th birthday, glares back at me. Behind him in the car sit his brothers. Their hands are pressed to their faces. One of them is crying. Caleb begins ...

The Least of These

Tuesday, May 22nd, 2007 Posted in Faith and Life | 6 Comments »

We've been adopted by a kitten. She's a scrawny black creature who darted out of the bushes a few days ago, mewling and shivering, afraid of all of us but desperately hungry. Now we have a dish for food and ...

Daddies

Saturday, June 3rd, 2006 Posted in Faith and Life, The Art of Parenting | 18 Comments »

I found myself on a train to the Atlanta airport weeks ago. There was an aggressive panhandler in my car, the kind who stands right up in your personal space and holds out his hand while mumbling about money for ...